if you had the chance to be with someone for the rest of your life.. but you know that person wont be there most of the time.. esp the important n special occasions...
would u still be with them...? or choose to keep on searching..? or risk being alone for the rest of your life? or end up with a lesser someone?
Well if you asked me..
I say if he's worth fighting for, if he makes you happy, if he's everything you've ever dreamed of, if he is the person your heart yearns for, if he is the person your soul longs for, if he is the person you wish you'd wake up to every morning, and if he is the person you picture waking up to everyday for the rest of your life - I say stay and fight for it.
Differences you can always get over, jobs you can always change, money you can always earn, time you can always make the best of it when you're together...
But another love just like that? Not my area of expertise, but you don't find love on the shelf too easy in this time and day, in my opinion...
Away from each other? There's always the phone to call, there's always text messages, there's email, there's video calls, video conferencing, on holiday seasons; there's annual leave, sick leave..
If you're happy, don't throw away your happiness. Unless if you're miserable without him, and with him.. then it's something to ponder over.
Hope it helps. Like I said, not my area of expertise.. but common sense in my world says stay, stay because you love him, because he makes you happy, and because you already picture your life and future with him in it...
Of course, sacrifices must be made.. but how far are you willing to go?
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